Before I discovered how attraction works, I had many experiences where something I said or did literally made a woman make a disgusted face and walk away from me. I spent years seeing that awful look on their faces. But in the end it was worth it for me. Because I quickly grew sick of my situation and took drastic measures to figure out how attraction worked in women. I wanted to know what caused her to make that face and make sure I never made the same mistake again. Here are three things I learned that separate the guys who attract women and the guys who chase women...

1. Teasing women effectively is absolutely critical to generating attraction. If you cannot pick on a woman in a playful and effective way, then you will bore her. There are the right ways to tease a woman and the wrong ways. But if you can make her laugh and at the same time make her question whether she has a chance of being with you, then you are on the right track. It's not about being a jerk, like so many people misunderstand. Its about sending mixed signals and being funny at the same time. Its truly an art and takes time cultivating.

2. You have to understand how to flirt with a woman. Men ...Read More

I just figured out a really cool place to meet women that most guys completely ignore. AND it will help you get better with talking to more women. As you know, a beautiful woman is not going to walk up and knock on your door. It's up to you to get creative and make it happen. I hope you actually use my idea or at least come up with new ideas you might not have considered.

In my quest to become an effective communicator and think on my toes I searched out an Improv comedy class. These things are incredible for making friends and meeting people. Everyone is there to learn how to be more funny and spontaneous and I was shocked when I noticed several single and very attractive women there.

I found the women there were bubbly, interesting and just just a tad bit crazy. (in a fun way). And the fact that you are the kind of guy who gets out of the house and betters his situation really shows women that you are different than the average Joe. You are pursuing interests and enjoying yourself. This is very attractive to women.

The classes teach you how to think fast in conversation, how to tell good stories and how to be more funny. Story-telling and humor are like ...Read More

Your goal when meeting women is to immediately stand out from other guys. Most men appear either boring, weird, or just plain average to a woman and unfortunately that is not what attracts them. Some guys seem to take the whole "standing out" thing too far and they will dress outlandishly or try and talk about strange topics to prove they are different. This is a mistake.

Separating yourself from the average guy is more subtle then wearing a feather boa when you go out. That's old school pickup artist tricks and it's over. There are a lot of things I think you need to focus on when you first meet a woman but here is what I think is one of the biggest personality traits to express to a woman you just met:

1. Have a passion

I truly believe a passion that you are working towards is much more attractive to women than your wallet, your looks or anything else. Of course some women care about your wallet but they are not the women you want to be focusing on anyway. Ambition is the key ingredient here. Having a true purpose in this life is very attractive. Women actually want you to have something more important than them in your life. A man who chooses a woman over ...Read More