Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, “How to win friends and influence people” talks about the power of asking questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

You must have been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!

If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you’re a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What is you all time favourite film and why?

3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?

7. What do you regret the most in your life?

8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

And now let’s get a little risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!

15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?

19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?

20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do and who was it?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?

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