Before I discovered how attraction works, I had many experiences where something I said or did literally made a woman make a disgusted face and walk away from me. I spent years seeing that awful look on their faces. But in the end it was worth it for me. Because I quickly grew sick of my situation and took drastic measures to figure out how attraction worked in women. I wanted to know what caused her to make that face and make sure I never made the same mistake again. Here are three things I learned that separate the guys who attract women and the guys who chase women…

1. Teasing women effectively is absolutely critical to generating attraction. If you cannot pick on a woman in a playful and effective way, then you will bore her. There are the right ways to tease a woman and the wrong ways. But if you can make her laugh and at the same time make her question whether she has a chance of being with you, then you are on the right track. It’s not about being a jerk, like so many people misunderstand. Its about sending mixed signals and being funny at the same time. Its truly an art and takes time cultivating.

2. You have to understand how to flirt with a woman. Men are not naturally good at flirting with women. We communicate in a straight-forward way and talk to both men and women using this manner of communication. Flirting is about sub-communicating and having underlying meanings in what you say. If you talk to her like you normally talk to men she will not feel attraction for you. The world of attraction lies in her emotions and something you cannot speak directly to. It takes learning a new language. The language of attraction. Also known as flirting.

3. Understand how to create sexual tension. Sexual tension is what separates you from the man she considers a friend versus the man she considers a lover. Its all about creating something I like to call “perceived roadblocks” that you build and remove at the right times in your interactions with her. This will make her feel a rollercoaster of emotions when around you and her attraction to you will be incredible.

These are 3 big characteristics of guys who are naturally good with women. It’s what separates you from the men who bore her and the men who she can’t stop thinking about.

For more details on how to attract women check out the Real World Attraction free crash course video. You can also check out the Real World Attraction blog for more great tips on meeting and dating women.

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